Let’s look at some song inspirations.
There’s a tradition of the newlywed dance that dates back centuries. At formal balls, guests of honor would officially open the dance floor by initiating the first dance, allowing the rest of the attendees to join in afterward. Although times have changed, the tradition persists, with newlyweds starting the wedding reception by sharing their first dance as a married couple. Choosing the perfect first dance song involves many considerations. It is important to select one that stands the test of time and touches your ears with tenderness. We suppose that is why classic tunes are still trendy when it comes to first wedding dances.
First Dance Etiquette
Traditionally, the bride and groom are alone on the dance floor for the first wedding dance. Sometimes the father of the bride may interrupt them in order to dance with his daughter. More often, however, he reserves the second dance. Oftentimes, the father will select the tune as a kind gesture to the bride. Soon after the father-daughter couple takes the floor, they’re followed by the mother and son. Last to join are the groomsmen and bridesmaids, as well as all other guests.
Some advice on the First Dance
The thought of the first dance can be discouraging. If you and your partner aren’t comfortable dancing in public, it might be a great idea to take a few dancing lessons. Many instructors offer short-term wedding dance lessons.
Here are some song suggestions that might remind you of a past special moment or that could inspire you to create new memories that will last a lifetime:
First wedding dance (bride and groom)
Taylor Swift – “Lover”
Christina Perri – “A Thousand Years”
John Legend – “All Of me”
Dan and Shay – “You”
Adele – “Make You Feel My Love”
Jason Mraz – “I Won’tGive Up”
Ed Sheeran – “Thinking Out Loud”
Beyoncé – “Love On Top”
Norah Jones – “Come Away With Me”
Train – “Marry Me”
Father-daughter dance
The father-daughter dance is rich in symbolism, representing the transfer of care, protection and responsibility from the father to the daughter’s new partner. This dance publicly acknowledges the transition and growth within the family structure. It offers guests a glimpse into the personal relationship between the father and daughter while celebrating the milestones they have reached together.
Some songs for this lovely dance:
Temptations – “My Girl“
Paul Simon – “Father and Daughter“
Nat ‘King’ Cole – “Unforgettable“
Luther Vandross – “Dance With My Father“
Charlie Rich – “The Most Beautiful Girl“
Bob Carlisle – “Butterfly Kisses“
Frank Sinatra – “The Way You Look Tonight”
Tim McGraw – “My Little Girl”
Heartland – “I Loved Her First”
Rascal Flatts – “My Wish”
Mother-son dance
Another moment that brings joy and warmth to any wedding reception is the mother-son wedding dance. This special dance allows the groom to express gratitude and love to his mother, who has been a pillar of support and strength throughout his life. These intimate dancing minutes honor the mother and thank her for the love and support she has provided.
Some song ideas for this dance:
Boyz II Men – “A Song For Mama“
Robbie Williams – “She’s The One“
Boyzone – “No Matter What“
Justin Bieber – “Turn to You”
Adele – “Sweetest Devotion”
John Mayer – “Love Is A Verb”
Jason Mraz – “93 Million Miles”
Queen – “You’re My Best Friend”
Commodores – “Three Times a Lady“
Eric Clapton – “Wonderful Tonight“